Wednesday Wall of Women

Meagan and Jane are helping launch our Mix Wednesday Wall of Women...a place to discuss some of life's challenges, triumphs, and just get some second opinions.  Our first round looks at "Jennifer's" problem being stuck in the friend zone.

Here's what she shared:

I'm casually dating this guy from work, at least I think I am.  We've gone to dinner, lunch, a concert, a movie, and even at BSU game.  When we grabbed lunch yesterday, he made it clear that we were paying for our own meals.  Same thing the other times we went to eat, but with the concert and movie he paid.  There's chemistry, but I'm confused.  Are we in the friend zone? - Jennifer

So what would you advise Jennifer do?  Have you been in this spot?