Dear Mike and Nicole,

I've listened to you guys for years and I love you...I never thought I'd ever be writing to get help on OPP, but here I am writing you to get your input.

My husband and I are headed for divorce and I seriously don't know what I'm supposed to be doing to prepare.

Do I call a lawyer first? Take a bunch of money out of the bank? Tell my parents? Tell my husband? He realizes that I'm not happy and that the marriage is over, but doesn't realize how soon this is happening. I've been trying to figure out what to do now for a few weeks and I'm just lost.

When you tell your partner, do you open it up to a discussion about working on your marriage? Or do you tell them, NO, we are NOT trying to save this marriage!

Please help! Ready to move on with the rest of my life.

 

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