A woman made a mistake but her husband is not reacting like you would expect. Now she is worried that he is planning to divorce her. Are these signs that he wants out?

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Mike & Kate
Do not use my name, please. It could be very ugly for me. I’ve been happily married for almost 20 years. My best friend and I frequently go away on weekend trips. We always meet lots of nice and interesting people. We do a lot of flirting with men, but nothing has EVER come of it. No kissing, nothing but innocent flirting. This last weekend trip, I met a man that I nearly couldn’t resist. I’ve never been so taken by a man like this before. He was very sweet, we got along beautifully. We ended up sneaking away for a while and I kissed him. I did put a stop to it before it went any farther. He said he understood that I couldn’t go any further with that because I have a family. I can’t seem to get him off my mind. I can live with that (or so I thought).

Here’s the problem: the other night, on the way to "Oklahoma," I screamed out this man’s name, not my husband’s. He whispered to me “I knew it,” but continued on as if it was almost a turn-on for him (which I found kind of creepy). He won’t even discuss it, and is acting as though it never happened. I feel rotten about the whole thing. I want to tell him and make him understand that nothing happened, but he won’t even discuss it. I’m afraid this is the beginning of the end for us. I just want everything out in the open. Do you think he is secretly planning on divorcing me? What does it mean that he won't even talk to me about this? Should I just leave him alone and let him deal with this in his own way? This is very abnormal for how we usually solve problems. We always talk things out. His unwillingness  to even discuss it has me very worried for my marriage. What should I think?

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