My wife has gotten addicted to lifting weights in the last year and a half. She has become massive. Her arms are seriously way bigger than mine.

I feel like everyone looks at us when we go out. She's big and muscular and I might actually be a bit undersized. To accentuate her gains in the gym, she always wears tank tops and other clothes that show off her muscles.

I'm happy that she has found a healthy hobby, but it feels weird laying next to someone who’s built like a linebacker each night and you can only imagine how awkward going to Oklahoma has become.

And before your 12 listeners get all crazy and say I should “communicate” with her, I’ve tried talking to her about it. She said this makes her feel good about herself, so she doesn’t care that it bugs me because she isn’t stopping. Now she's even talking about entering female bodybuilding contests.

Isn't this something she should compromise on? Muscle tone is great, being in great shape is good, but she is straight jacked and I for one do not like it.

What do I do?

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