OPP-“I Slept With The Groom”
A woman is debating telling her friend that she slept with her soon to be groom. She is struggling with the decision to keep quiet or come clean with her friend.
Other People’s Problems April 22nd, 2014
Mike & Kate-My best friend lives in Houston where I am from. She got engaged last fall. I haven’t been home in a few years. My parents usually come to Boise to see me. I was finally able to get home for their engagement party a couple of weeks ago. This was the first time I met the groom or so I thought. I have seen his picture on her Facebook page and he looked familiar but it never clicked until we met in person. We both instantly recognized each other. 5 years ago I was home for a week and met this man at a bar. We ended up having a one night stand. I thought nothing of it until the engagement party. Neither one of us said anything to my best friend. We both knew it was not the right place. I am the maid of honor in their wedding. Do I say something to my friend? I want to say she seems like a confident woman, but who knows how any bride to be would handle this type of news. My worry is that should would hear the news from someone else. The night I slept with the soon to be groom, we were both with friends, some who are still part of our circle. What if it comes out later? Or is it not a big deal because she didn’t even know him then? They started dating 3 years after the one night stand. I am guessing guys won’t think this is a big deal but to some woman this is a HUGE deal. I keep trying to put myself in her shoes and I get stuck so I thought you and your 12 listeners could help. Do I tell her before the wedding? Do I not tell her at all? Do I tell her after the wedding?
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