Mike & Nicole’s OPP: Friendship Betrayal
Dear Mike and Nicole,
My over 40-year-old friend took me out for beers the other night and asked me if he could date my 21-year-old daughter. I guess they have been secretly dating for the last 3 months. This is a guy who has seen my daughter grow up since birth. My son is getting married and my best friend and daughter want to attend the wedding as a couple. I am absolutely reeling from all of this. I did not see this coming. This is a guy who has been a great friend for 25 years!
I know he hasn't done anything illegal, but I feel deeply betrayed. Do I swallow my pride and let him take my daughter to my son's wedding, or do I make a big deal out of this and say he can't come?