Dear Mike and Nicole,

My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years. Ten months ago, she gave birth to our amazing child. Recently, I've been wondering if the child is mine. We're an interracial couple. My wife, who is white, has brown hair and brown eyes. I'm black. Our child has a light complexion, blonde hair and blue eyes. No one in either of our families has blonde hair or blue eyes. I'm at a loss on what to do. I don't want to accuse my wife of anything, but our baby DOES NOT look like either of us. If you were me would you ask for a paternity test? What is the best way to handle this?

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