Dear Mike and Nicole,

I have a 'no win decision' to make very soon. I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 years. She's an awesome woman and I truly do love her. Recently, I was promoted at work. The problem is I have to move out of state to take the job. My girlfriend is tied to this area and can't move. She hasn't said not to take the new job, but I can tell she doesn't want me to go. This job is what I've been working for my entire career. An opportunity like this comes up once in a lifetime. I don't know what to do. Do I choose the woman I love or the opportunity I've worked so hard for my entire life. What do I do?