Dear Mike and Nicole,

Two Fridays ago I met a woman, who is 21 years younger than me at happy hour out at Lucky Fins. She and I were both alone and started chatting. Several drinks later, we agreed to go out. The next night, we had dinner. We've been on several dates since. Everything was going perfect until Saturday. A friend from high school is in town and we met for lunch. He started talking about how happy he is and that he and his daughter have reconciled after years of not talking. I crapped my pants when he showed me a picture of her. His daughter is the younger woman I am dating from happy hour.

What do I do? Tell him? Tell her? Say nothing?