Dear Mike & Nicole,

My fiance and I have been together for going on four years. We are getting married next weekend and I have a problem. Me and 5 of my buddies flew to Portland for my bachelor party. In typical bachelor party fashion, I got drunk and responded to a text from my crazy ex-girlfriend that lives in Portland. She saw on my Facebook page that I was in town. She showed up at the hotel with two of her girlfriends and my buddies encouraged us to all go out together and have a good time. That good time ended with me waking up next to her. Now, she is threatening to crash the ceremony if I don't cancel my wedding. She has our text messages and some pictures on her phone that she is threatening me with. I made a mistake. How do I get out of this?